Conversation with the Alchemist 5

Conversation with the Alchemist 5

Boy: What is care?

Alchemist: Your care should not make anyone dependable. True care is to make a person independent.

Boy: I get attached to things and people very quickly. Distance and differences always hurt. is attachment good?

Alchemist: Attachment is a normal human tendency. It's good sometimes. Attaching to things and people are proof that your have emotions. Makes you feel alive. We are humans after all.
When the distance and differences strike give a little break to your ego and initialize the conversation again if people are important. Life is too short to make big decisions and you are too young.
If the attachments are like nicotine, alcohol or drugs then stop before you make a habit of it. Draw boundaries and you should know when to drop off. There is no harm in enjoying the pleasure feeling it(nicotine, alcohol or drugs) gives.

Boy: I often fail to understand people. what is the best technique to understand someone?

Alchemist: Get into their shoes. People always put masks and may behave good with you. You should see how they behave with everyone. You have no idea about their past and the situations they were in. Never judge people understand them.

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